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Name: Harleygurl
Home: Kansas CIty, Missouri, United States
About Me: ALmost 40, Wife to a wonderful husband, Mother of 2 beautiful daughters and Grandmother (Nana) to a handsome Grandson
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Thursday, May 31, 2007 |
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| Overbearing Me |
| Sometimes I have to stop and think that I really can be overbearing. I was talking to my friend Sheila last night and afterwards I started wondering if she thought I was pushy. Let's back up so that you understand where I am coming from. A few weeks ago we did a motorcycle ride(I already spoke about this) for American Heart Association. Well, this ride was in memory of Sheila's husband Ronnie. Ronnie was a customer of mine when I was bartending. Then Ronnie ended up being the owner of the bar. He was just a super nice guy! You could tell him anything , about anything and he would listen. He would give you his advice and then let you carve your own path. If you chose to follow his advice that was great if you chose not to and made a BIG mess out of things, then Ronnie would try to help you straighten it all out. Yet, he would NEVER say " I told you so", even though it was deserved. Anyway, after talking to Sheila I wondered if I had overstepped by boundaries the day of the ride for Ronnie. I thought at the time that I was helping and I was trying to take some of the pressure of of her. Now I wonder if I was to pushy. If I was I really truly did not mean to be. I only wanted to help. Sheila and I really just started talking last summer. Not because we didn't like each other, we had really just never had the chance to sit and talk and get to know one another. She is super sweet, soft spoken, unlike myself, and I really feel we would totally enjoy one anothers company and friendship. She has a heart of gold and that is very obvious! Sheila, if I was pushy or overbearing I never meant to be. I know that ever once in a while I can be and I am sorry! I never mean to. I guess that is just me. Love me or hate me. Hopefully most people will choose to like me for who I am. If not then there is nothing I can do about it. I am who I am. Yes, sometimes, overbearing and pushy. However, I will always do all that I can for any of my friends. If you feel I am not doing all I can for you as a friend then pleas let me know! Labels: friends, motorcycle ride, pushy |
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